This is the youth of today Im afraid, I had an experience last night, which given the fact its only a month ago today last I lost Tony, upset me and unsettled me more than I could deal with last night. Griffon barked at a boy, aged about 12 after he called him over, then raised his arm up very quickly over his head. Of course Griffon has been beaten in his puppyhood and he backed off quickly barking. None of the others reacted but this boy thought it ok to saunter over to me and tell me that Oi bitch you need to rein your dogs in or I'll have them all shot. I verbally went at him & I was ready to floor him but he danced out of my reach before following me round the field and making gun shaped fingers & noises followed by the imitation of a dog whining and yelling at me they'll be dead bitch, blood everywhere, just like that. I had to endure that for 10 minutes last night, all the time he stayed back far enough to be able to bolt it should I turn around again. Quite the most horrible experience I have ever had since I've had the dogs :'(sorry to hear this lets hope his mum and dad rein him in thats if his mother knows who his dad is with out a dna test
What you have to ask yourself is why these children think this behaviour is acceptable, it seems very obviously (to me) to be some kind of mal-adaptive coping behaviour. Children are very good at learning by example - i would be asking where has this girl learned that it is socially acceptable to inflict cruelty and control on other living creatures? At home? At school? Through media? all social.
This is the youth of today Im afraid, I had an experience last night, which given the fact its only a month ago today last I lost Tony, upset me and unsettled me more than I could deal with last night. Griffon barked at a boy, aged about 12 after he called him over, then raised his arm up very quickly over his head. Of course Griffon has been beaten in his puppyhood and he backed off quickly barking. None of the others reacted but this boy thought it ok to saunter over to me and tell me that Oi bitch you need to rein your dogs in or I'll have them all shot. I verbally went at him & I was ready to floor him but he danced out of my reach before following me round the field and making gun shaped fingers & noises followed by the imitation of a dog whining and yelling at me they'll be dead bitch, blood everywhere, just like that. I had to endure that for 10 minutes last night, all the time he stayed back far enough to be able to bolt it should I turn around again. Quite the most horrible experience I have ever had since I've had the dogs
Until we stop pathologising and start understanding there is no hope for the future. What stopped children of previous generations from straying outside social norms ? - fear ? - respect ? - responsibility ?What is there to be fearful of when the law is a joke ?Who is there to respect when your parents dont give a rats arse about where you are and what you are up to ?Why bother being responsible in a society where everyone else is always to blame and the media constantly tell us so.
With respect, the doctrine of original sin as an understanding of human children is fundamentally flawed and has been largely abandoned. It is exactly the kind of "people like these" attitude which is behind the dominant biomedical understanding of psychological distress which is serving to create a society which just abdicates responsibility, incarcerates and systematically abuses people.And that means in English?
Just as an aside, I happen to be currently finishing off over 3000 words on this very argument and the evidence is overwhelmingly in favour of my viewpoint.