Trouble is if she goes up there it will be ME who has to take time off to get up there find somewhere to stay ( ok my sis but not the point if she cant accomodate me i have to find somewhere to pay to stay!) i have to pay £50 in petrol to get there and more to get back – he doesnt drive and a train is totaly impractical if he does that when shes young – which is a moot point anyway cos its NOT happening :nono:
I dont see why i should have to do that when its him whos been the total arse, to be honest ive put up with a lot, wont go into detail its severly depressing, and hes lucky i havent gone to court to stop him having any access, im still being the nice one about it right now! wouldnt mid but he threatens legal action yet ive never as yet said he cant see her ::) any as i have seen a solicitor i know that until shes born he has no rights at all – not even to go to court to start proceedings for access ::) which he clearly doesnt know!
but shows what hes like threatening such things when i have 5 weeks to go -youd think a bit of common sense would tell him thats a cruel thing to do to anyone let alone someone that near a due date…….
sorry i could whinge about him all day long :boooo:
